Hi back, specialbottom,
No offence, but I can't relate to "mystery" people. Please have a complete profile including a profile photo if you want me to respond to you seriously. If you do that, you may contact me again.
Hi there specialbottom,
I’m interested in getting to know someone who is serious about dating. You seem like a quality guy, and that intrigues me. Check out my profile and feel free to ask any questions.
I would like to meet, get acquainted and, if the chemistry is right, start dating. I am searching for a boyfriend, or long-term partner who lives in my local area. I am a bottom who strongly believes in safe sex (condom when getting fucked). I never engage in barebacking and I do not smoke, drink or use drugs. I am open to sharing social times as well as intimacy on a regular basis. I hesitate to provide a lot of sexual detail for fear of only attracting guys looking for quick hook-ups.
I was in a 38 year loving relationship with one man. Unfortunately, he passed away of heart failure in February 2009.
I am a healthy HIV positive man (HIV undetectable, amazingly good health).
I prefer a friendship that is based on compatibility, personality, affection, complete honesty, mutual respect, caring, attraction and pleasure. I tend to be a romantic type of guy and get really turned on when a guy treats me with tenderness as a person (as opposed to a casual piece of meat). I tend to be attracted to Caucasian, Asian and Hispanic guys but I don't have a list of physical criteria. Age can be older or younger. Since I am a non-smoker, I prefer being with a non-smoker. I am retired and very well educated. I am very adverse to drugs. I am an amateur masseur and can do full-body and/or erotic massage.
I am only interested in meeting guys who live in my local area (Long Beach, Los Angeles County, Orange County).
Don't use drugs
I have safer sex?:
Only when partner requests it
White / European
A little hair
Not religious / Agnostic
English, French, Spanish
Roles & Positions:
Bottom / Receiver
Frequency of sex:
At least once a week
Oral sex, Anal sex, Kissing, JO, Porn, One-on-one, Toys/gear, Massage
What I like:
I love anal stimulation (getting fingered, getting probed with toys, getting rimmed, getting fucked). I am an experienced amateur masseur and have my own deluxe massage table. I took one course in erotic massage and learned 23 way to massage the penis. For some reason if you tweak my nipples firmly, I get quicker and more intense orgasms. You are welcome to shoot your hot, creamy load on my body (chest, stomach or back), but I am not into cum facials. I am an incurable romantic and very affectionate. I love lots of foreplay (kissing, hugging, cuddling, touching, massaging, licking). I prefer intimacy that builds up over a period of time. I do not like to rush to an orgasm. Despite my age, I still get rock hard erections. Although I enjoy sex a lot, I believe that a relationship includes so much more (sharing experiences together, traveling, mutual support, etc.). I am interested in old fashioned dating so that we can get to know each other very well, to create mutual trust and to develop a loving bond. I am very attracted to a man who is romantic.
For practical reasons, I wish to date someone who lived in my local area. I am not focused on
age (older or younger) and physical characteristics but rather on inner qualities such as honesty, affection, stability, compatibility. I would not date a smoker, a drug user or alcoholic.
My friends say that I would a terrific catch for the right man. Of course, that's their subjective judgment so you will need to reach your own conclusion.