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GayTies News for December 16, 2019


LGBTQ Vets Seek Changes to NYS Law Aiming to Aid Them

My choices for the films of the year, the runners-up, and the losers of 2019 follow: 1. “The Irishman” (Martin Scorsese): Picture “The Sopranos” if its final episode were closer to that of “Six Feet Under,” which fol... Show more

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Masterpiece Theater

Writers writing about writing can be a tricky business. It can tip into self-indulgence or be so much talk that it becomes tedious. Fortunately, Adam Rapp has avoided both of these traps and created “The Sound Insi... Show more

What If Mexican Revolutionary Hero Zapata Had Been Gay?

There is no other word for it: “The Inheritance” is a masterpiece. Matthew Lopez’s expansive, engrossing two-play exploration of contemporary gay life in the post-marriage equality, effective HIV treatments world i... Show more

The Year in Music: 2019

What if the Mexican Revolution hero Emiliano Zapata was an effeminate gay man? We at least know what his family would think. Wide resentment has ensued since artist Fabián Cháirez’s depiction of Zapata — a heroic militar... Show more

Two Trump Appointees Confirmed to Ninth Circuit

My list of the top 10 albums of the year is as follows: 1. FKA Twigs: “Magdalene” (Young Turks) In a year when most of the creative energy that would’ve livened up indie rock a decade ago went into indie pop inst... Show more


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Neil Patrick Harris, David Burtka at Christmas Neil Patrick Harris, David Burtka, and kids, celebrate Christmas

Neil Patrick Harris and David Burtka are known globally as Halloween enthusiasts, but their Christmas spirit may be just as legendary.

The couple, who married in 2014, took Architectural Digest on a tour of their five-story New York brownstone for a stunning photo series published this week. As it turns out, decking the halls in Yuletide finery is very much a family affair.

If you've seen photos of Neil Patrick Harris and David Burtka with their kids, Harper and Gideon, you've probably noticed a couple of things: They're always enjoying themselves -- usually eating sushi at a hot new restaurant or watching Broadway's most in-demand new show -- and they're always impeccably dressed.

But, only one of them is responsible for the kids' adorably chic ensembles -- and that's David. "I take full responsibility!" he told GayTies.com editors when we asked about Harper and Gideon's wardrobes. "But they have opinions on what they wear now that they're older. It's awful!"

Neil explained that it's David who "loves dressing them, loves buying clothes for them and loves online shopping" for their two children, but instead of being able to simply pick out their outfits for them, now that the twins are 7, they want to have more of a say in what they wear. Fair enough, but it can create a bit of harmless drama in their household.

"It’s hilarious to observe, because David will say to Harper, ‘What do you think of this dress?’ And he’ll show her images on a screen and she’ll be in a distracted mood and say she loves it," Neil explained. "Then he’ll order everything and when he’s demanding that she wear the dress…"

“We are very hands-on when it comes to Christmas,” Burkta said in the interview, which appears on the magazine’s website. “Neil is an amazing tree builder and light trimmer. And I usually do all the garlands, the tablescapes and the flowers.”

Added Harris, “We’ve been together for over 15 years, which is a lot of holidays. And every holiday you wind up buying a throw pillow, a new nutcracker, or something. And we’ve kept it all.”

The features of the tour are, of course, two Christmas trees. Appearing in the home’s music room, the first measures 12 feet tall and is decorated solely in gold and white ornaments. The second, displayed in an upstairs living room, is 10 feet tall and decorated in a more casual style. Homemade ornaments from Burtka’s and Harris’ childhoods, as well as snapshots of the dads with their 9-year-old twins, Gideon Scott and Harper Grace, are featured prominently.

The couple’s Architectural Digest interview also coincides with the launch of their new Christmas-themed digital series for Walgreens. They share their advice on decorating, gift-giving and holiday entertaining in the campaign, which launched earlier this month.

“One of the nice things amidst the chaos of the holiday season is that it quiets down, and you’re allowed to just coexist with your kids and your spouse and just be together,” Harris said of the campaign. “I’m a big games and toys guy. I don’t think you have to be a kid to shop in the toy section.” pub 12/07)

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