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GayTies News for January 15, 2021


LGBTQ Representation Dips on Television

LGBTQ representation on television has dipped for the first time in five years, according to GLAAD’s annual “Where We Are on TV” report for 2020-21. Queer characters represented 9.1 per... Show more

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Just days after a transgender woman was killed in Chicago, a transgender man was killed in Puerto Rico and a transgender woman was found dead in Detroit. Samuel Edmund Damián Valentín w... Show more

Gay City News Weekender: 7 Things to Do in Queer NYC Jan. 15-17

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Gay City News: January 14, 2020

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The Chartreuse Garden: The Horrific Murders of Innocents that Compelled Me to Fight Social Injustice and Hate
Book review by GayTies Editorial Staff

What a remarkable story by author Jack Castiglione. Shocking. Disturbing. TRUE. Such awful treatment of gay people. It would be unbelievable except that the author, Jack Castiglione, takes us on his long and winding journey of self-discovery of his sexuality. He writes about visiting both female and male prostitutes to learn his true identity. He tells us how he developed great empathy for the most vulnerable people in our communities who are frequently subjected to hate crimes. His difficult childhood and his life as a young adult caused him to realize that life is precious and that the equality of justice is essential.

But wait until you read how he turns tragedy into action to stop gay-bashing. Yes, he struggled. He was a victim of childhood bullying and abuse by his mother and beaten by his older brothers and others. As a teenager and adult, he faced discrimination and rejection. But instead of feeling helpless and bitter, he became a gay hero!

Yes, you will wonder where this story is going, but hold onto your socks, you are in for one hell of a gut-twisting, reality-exposing ride. It's not for minors because he describes his early sexual encounters as a way to discover his own sexuality, but he does it tastefully.

A great and important book for members of the gay community, their families, and friends. Anyone seeking to understand the pain and harm of social injustice must read this book. Plus, you will learn what to do about it!

I highly recommend this book! Look, many of us are stuck home and bored. Lighten up your life and celebrate our gay equality achievements and the life of this role model.

To check it out on Amazon and reads the reviews, click the Amazon link at the upper right.(pub 1/8)

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