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GayTies News for October 15, 2018


CNN Reporter Called Out for Anti-Gay Tweets

Matthew Shepard, the 21-year-old college student who died 20 years ago on October 12, days after suffering a brutal homophobic attack from two men in Laramie, Wyoming, will finally be laid to rest at the Washington Na... Show more

Homophobe Close to Winning Presidency of Brazil

Can’t fault CNN for liberal bias. They hired Kaitlan Collins as a White House correspondent in 2017 — directly from her serving in the same post for the right-wing Daily Caller website that was founded by Fox News’ Tucker Carlson. ... Show more

Susan Collins Dumped

Right wing candidate Jair Bolsonaro won 46 percent in the first round of voting for president of Brazil, short of the 50 percent needed to avoid a runoff on October 28. Bolsonaro will face off against S?o Paulo Mayor Ferna... Show more

De Blasio Signs Gender Marker Reform

US Senator Susan Collins’ defense of Supreme Court Justice Brett Kavanaugh got her removed as an honorary co-sponsor of the International Human Rights Art Festival set for New York’s Wild Project November 12-18. The festiv... Show more

Tokyo Enacts LGBT Rights Law

At an October 9 ceremony at the Edie Windsor SAGE Center in Chelsea, Mayor Bill de Blasio signed legislation to give a third gender option on New York City birth certificates, allowing people who identify as non-binar... Show more

Trans Student Excluded During Shelter Drill

The Metropolitan Government of Tokyo passed a bill prohibiting discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity on October 5 — moved by the coming of the Summer Olympics to the capital in 2020. Human Rights W... Show more


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2 naked men hugging on stage KINK HAÜS Is a Sex-Charged Journey Through Self-Discovery

Renowned Philadelphia-based performance artist, Gunnar Montana, is making his New York City debut with KINK HAÜS, an eye-opening tale about the search for one’s true identity, and the ongoing demand for freedom and self-love.

Told through dance, heavy music, visual arts, and superb performances by artists Avi Bourochoff, CJ Coleman, Jessica Daley, Dylan Kepp, Frank Leon, and Stephanie Lyneice, the autobiographical piece beautifully weaves together experiences often faced by young queer teens, through the eyes of Montana, its creator and choreographer.

With exquisite lighting design by Oona Curley, Gunnar and his crew manage to arouse a uniquely American story about what it’s like coming to terms with one’s own individuality. Each performer owns the spotlight with their cutting edge dance pieces, evoking a call to the soul many people born on the outside of cultural standards might recognize as their own.

For the Montana-born creator, bringing the show to N.Y.C. was indeed a journey. Since 2013, the Philadelphia staple has produced sold-out performance pieces to high acclaim. But this one is by far his most personal yet.

“It’s autobiographical in the sense that it goes through my twenties, themes in my twenties, which were you know: boys, booze and drugs,” Montana says. It’s also about “how I was affected and how I got to the point where I am now, which is sober and a little more clear-headed,” to which he quips, “I'm looking back on my twenties and being like, ugh, you were such trash.”

While the show is certainly celebrating freedom — each performer is decorated in bright colors, elaborate costumes, and killer stilettos — there is a method to the in-your-face (fabulous) madness.

KINK HAÜS is currently playing at the Tony Award-winning La Mama Experimental Theater Club (New York's premier Off Off Broadway theater), Thursdays through Sunday at 8:00 p.m. with a 10 p.m. performance on Fridays. The show runs till Sunday, October 14.

In the photo, above, Gunnar Montana (in blue) and Avi Bourochoff (in green) deliver a passionate piece depicting the intense tug of war to maintain your true self inside a paradigm of toxic masculinity. With effortless talent and clear focus, Bourochoff leaves audiences in tears.

“I usually think of acts individually and think about what I want people to say,” Montana says of his process. “Usually it will start with an idea, and then it will morph into something else that fits into this world.”

Performer Jessica Daley’s standout performance was set inside a bathtub, where the dancer fearlessly interprets an aggressively powerful sentiment about womanhood, tagged with Stephanie Lyneice’s nuanced dance sequence beautifully laying her naked body on an imagined dance floor, alone and vulnerable, yet still bold and powerful.

“It started off as kind of a more melancholy,” Montana says of the bathtub sequence. “And then women started marching on Washington, and you got this very intense, angry, powerful vibe from women. I was like, let's capture that right now, because that's relevant, that's happening now… And that anger, that angst, that frustration counteracted with Stephanie and the oil.”

On his hopes for performance art, Montana says, "I feel like it's going in so many different directions. I'm seeing so much crazy shit, you know. After Gaga, anybody can do anything ,you know, and everybody is."

Montana, pictured lip-syncing to a dildo microphone depicting a twisted delicious version of the American dream, adds, "What I like about my work is that anything goes, but there's still a lot of structure to it. And there's still a program and, you know, and there's still technical dance, and you have all that, and it's very thought out — whereas, in the nightlife scene, anything goes [but] it goes to a very crazy place and it's like whoa, what's going on? At least here, there is an arc, there is an experience you can have, and I'm hoping that people can hone in on all of their art forms, and bring a similar experience. I see a lot of crazy stuff for the sake of being crazy."

Montana's advice for young queers living in rural areas of the country where there is little exposure to LGBTQ people: "Be your own gay!"

"When I was in Montana, all I had was Queer as Folk," he says. "I was a little upset because I feel like that put me in a rough twenties. I was like this is gay: Babylon! I'm going to be that kind of gay boy because that's the only gay boy I know. So, I encourage people to be their own gay, and to just do that." (Pub 10/8)

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