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GayTies News for December 13, 2018


Buzzcocks’ Out Bi Pete Shelley Dead at 63

Ahead of the new legislative season in January, 152 out LGBTQ elected officials nationwide have penned a letter addressed to members of Congress seeking action on four main initiatives to advance queer rights. The group ... Show more

Lesbian Co-Parent Loses in Kentucky

Pete Shelley wasn’t the only LGBTQ musician involved in the 1970s punk scene, but he was the most talented and the one whose legacy has proved to be the most influential. Born Peter McNeish in Lancashire, England in... Show more

Rapper Seeks to Have Assault Conviction Thrown Out

Adopting a narrow construction of the Kentucky Supreme Court’s historic 2010 same-sex co-parent decision in Mullins v. Picklesimer, a three-judge panel of the Court of Appeals of Kentucky, ruling on November 30, he... Show more

Pastor Charged in Slaying of Detroit Trans Woman

“Citing “prosecutorial misconduct” and a judge’s “erroneous rulings,” the defense in a Brooklyn assault case that was originally charged as an anti-LGBTQ hate crime has asked that the defendant’s conviction be vacated... Show more

Far From Heinous

A pastor who shot and killed a transgender black woman in Detroit on December 7 targeted her because of gender identity — and evidence of that will be presented in court, Wayne County prosecutors told Gay City News. Poli... Show more

Woman Suffers Fractured Spine in Anti-Gay Subway Assault

When jukebox musicals falter, and they often do, critics are quick to blame the book. Unlike traditional book musicals, where score and story are conceived hand-in-glove, jukebox musicals attempt to shoehorn a narrat... Show more


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Jeff Rohrer and Joshua Ross at Marriage ceremonyFormer Dallas Cowboy Jeff Rohrer Comes Out As Gay And ... Just Got Married

The retired linebacker reportedly will be the first known current or former NFL player in a same-sex marriage. Former Dallas Cowboys linebacker Jeff Rohrer just tackled a huge secret in his personal life, coming out as gay and revealing that he just got married to skincare magnate Joshua Ross on Sunday. (Joshua Ross is on the right in the photo.)

“I’ve given at least five people heart attacks with this news,” Rohrer joked to GayTies.com, “But for the most part, many of my closest friends, including some of my former teammates with the Cowboys, could not have been more happy and supportive.”

Rohrer, 59, grew up in Southern California and attended Yale. He played with the Cowboys, which like to call themselves America’s team, from 1982 to 1987. “If I had told the Dallas Cowboys in the 1980s that I was gay, I would have been cut immediately,” Rohrer told GayTies. “It was a different world back then, people didn’t want to hear that.”

Rohrer said in an interview with GayTies editors, that he never had a gay sexual experience while he was in the NFL or while he was married. (He and his ex-wife have two teenagers.) But he said he was tormented by his secret.

“So many nights I cried myself to sleep, feeling like I was the Wolfman, or Jekyll and Hyde, or Frankenstein, some kind of monster that only comes out when it’s a full moon, always living in the shadows,” he told the site.

The ex-pro athlete finally “let the Wolfman out,” the site wrote, when he met Ross at a gay bar in West Hollywood a few years ago. Rohrer, not yet out, exchanged contact info with Ross. ”I think we both knew where it was going,” Rohrer said.

Rohrer, who now produces TV commercials, and Ross, the founder of SkinLab, has tied the knot in front of 150 family and friends in Los Angeles last Sunday.

”I feel like I’m 16,” Rohrer told GayTies.com. “I feel revived. Like I’m born again. Again.” (The NFL has yet to have a current player publicly come out.) (Pub. 12/9)

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There are three popular ways to start a chat:

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2. Another good way is to arrange it. If you want to chat with someone you see on line, message them to meet you in chat, either right then, or a set a pre-arranged time later. You can also message someone who is not on line, and set a pre-arranged time to meet in chat. Some members will use our personal Ads to meet guys for chat.

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And …. that’s it. You are done. Chat with any of them, or let them chat with each other. It may be helpful for you to explain some features of chat, while you are in chat.

We suggest that before you send out your group invites, go into the chat room first and click on everything. Get a little bit familiar with the rooms, how to have private “whisper” chats, and especially click on the book icon, which contains very simple chat instructions.

It is not critical, but the rooms are for different subjects of chat. People can chat in the Lobby, or go into a subject room to be with those of similar interest. The Kinky Basement is for guys into kink talk as well as beating off, the Boner Room is for all kinds of jo scenes, and the Friendship Lounge is for guys seeking a non-sexual chat with cyber friends. And, you may see other rooms which members have created, because you can create your own room, for your own purpose.

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